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Staci
I was just wondering if there were any single moms out there with a baby under 12 months. If so i would love to hear about your experience so far as a single mom. And if you dont mind a little detail on why you and the father are not together.
I have been a single mom for 4 months. I am not at all struggling with raising my baby on my own. I am more struggling with the grief and loss of my relationship. I would really like to know how other moms are coping.
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I'm a single mom to a beautiful 7 1/2 month old little girl, and honestly I'm loving how close a bond I'm developing with her being her only primary caregiver. When we still lived in the house with her father, there was so much chaos. I would finally get her to sleep, and he would turn on the TV so loud it woke her. There was no routine because I never knew when he would be home or not, and he gave me hell about 'wasting' energy on the heater in the winter so the bedroom was too cold for the baby to sleep comfortably. It was like a constant tension between my attempts at creating stability for my baby and him stomping around like a rebellious toddler. Now that we live by ourselves, everything is so peaceful. I can put my baby to bed and nothing will wake her. I'm able to create a schedule for us with no conflict, and it is working out beautifully. Within one week of moving, she slept through the night for the first time in her life, and has every night since (it has been about 3 months now). I am so amazingly relieved, and it reflects on her aswell because babies are so sensitive to how you are feeling, she feels better because I feel better. I currently work from home so I spend 24/7 with my little girl. She takes 3 naps during the day, then goes to sleep by 8pm, so I'm able to work a full 6-8 hours in a day while she is asleep. I can't believe how much fun we have together! From trying out new foods, to playing with my cats, to silly games. I have never been happier in my life. I have no idea what I was trying to hold on to with her father! He just complicated everything and made conflict where there really didn't need to be any.
Just hang in there sweetie and treasure the time you get to spend with your baby, they grow up way too fast! Live in the 'now'... now is your life with a beautiful child, let go of the past and the man that went with it.
Good luck, and feel free to add me to your contacts if you ever want to chat :)
I'm a single mom to a beautiful 7 1/2 month old little girl, and honestly I'm loving how close a bond I'm developing with her being her only primary caregiver. When we still lived in the house with her father, there was so much chaos. I would finally get her to sleep, and he would turn on the TV so loud it woke her. There was no routine because I never knew when he would be home or not, and he gave me hell about 'wasting' energy on the heater in the winter so the bedroom was too cold for the baby to sleep comfortably. It was like a constant tension between my attempts at creating stability for my baby and him stomping around like a rebellious toddler. Now that we live by ourselves, everything is so peaceful. I can put my baby to bed and nothing will wake her. I'm able to create a schedule for us with no conflict, and it is working out beautifully. Within one week of moving, she slept through the night for the first time in her life, and has every night since (it has been about 3 months now). I am so amazingly relieved, and it reflects on her aswell because babies are so sensitive to how you are feeling, she feels better because I feel better. I currently work from home so I spend 24/7 with my little girl. She takes 3 naps during the day, then goes to sleep by 8pm, so I'm able to work a full 6-8 hours in a day while she is asleep. I can't believe how much fun we have together! From trying out new foods, to playing with my cats, to silly games. I have never been happier in my life. I have no idea what I was trying to hold on to with her father! He just complicated everything and made conflict where there really didn't need to be any.
Just hang in there sweetie and treasure the time you get to spend with your baby, they grow up way too fast! Live in the 'now'... now is your life with a beautiful child, let go of the past and the man that went with it.
Good luck, and feel free to add me to your contacts if you ever want to chat :)
Any ideas to experience a great foreplay for a beginner ?
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I'm just about to have my first experiences with her and i want to have an enjoyable and sensual foreplay. Any ideas ??
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Start by taking a nice bath with each other. make sure you are all clean. get candles and set them around the bathroom and bedroom. then dry each other off. paying most attention to her body. then lay down on the bed. make sure the room is a nice temperature. don't start by eating her out. first just pay attention to her face. kiss her on her neck, then slowly move down. kissing the whole time. then pay attention to her breasts. massage, tickle, even sucking them like a baby. then move back up to her neck. (this whole time just listen to her, tell her how happy you are to be with her, how beautiful she is.) move back down to her thighs. don't go to her parts just yet. caress her WHOLE body. caress her thighs. kiss her inner thighs. gently flip her over. rub her back, kiss her, massage. then pay attention to her butt. lick, massage, anything that makes her happy. then flip her back over gently. now is the time to "tease" her. lick her genitals. play with her. lick her clitoris. lick it in a circular motion. this will really get her going. just play with her. put your fingers in her, and tickle her clitoris. that is what my bf did to me one time. and it was and is seriously the night i will never forget. hope i helped.(:
Start by taking a nice bath with each other. make sure you are all clean. get candles and set them around the bathroom and bedroom. then dry each other off. paying most attention to her body. then lay down on the bed. make sure the room is a nice temperature. don't start by eating her out. first just pay attention to her face. kiss her on her neck, then slowly move down. kissing the whole time. then pay attention to her breasts. massage, tickle, even sucking them like a baby. then move back up to her neck. (this whole time just listen to her, tell her how happy you are to be with her, how beautiful she is.) move back down to her thighs. don't go to her parts just yet. caress her WHOLE body. caress her thighs. kiss her inner thighs. gently flip her over. rub her back, kiss her, massage. then pay attention to her butt. lick, massage, anything that makes her happy. then flip her back over gently. now is the time to "tease" her. lick her genitals. play with her. lick her clitoris. lick it in a circular motion. this will really get her going. just play with her. put your fingers in her, and tickle her clitoris. that is what my bf did to me one time. and it was and is seriously the night i will never forget. hope i helped.(:
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