Raymond
I'm in the Army stationed in Korea. I'm going to be home in April for 2 weeks to get married to my fiancé. I need help on choosing the right hotel to stay at and things to do for a little honeymoon. I'm 21 and my fiancés 20.
Answer
Since you only mentioned hotels, I'm assuming you already have a venue for the actual wedding & reception/after party, and are just looking for something for you & your (soon to be) husband?
Sand Diego has a ton of places, but most of them are more resort/party related. For a honeymoon, I would think you guys would want something that was more catered to just the two of you, at least as a hotel, so you guys can spend time together. If it was me, I would try for a bed and breakfast over a hotel- they're smaller, quieter, and usually have better amenities for couples.
It wasn't for a honeymoon (Iâm not married yet), but a few years ago my boyfriend and I stayed at a bed and breakfast called Jamul Haven. It was originally built as farmhouse in the Victorian era (Victorian era=beautiful architecture, and super romantic, décor wise) by the owner of an Olive Farm. There is a ton of history to it, but I won't bore you with the details of that here- it's since been revamped as a exclusive bed and breakfast (there are only 4 rooms altogether).
The location is gorgeous- it's built on the foothills of the Laguna mountains, and we spent every night watching the sunset there. The whole sky was lit up with colors I swear I've never seen in our home state (Ohio).
Each of the rooms has a theme- we stayed in the Celtic room; when we booked our stay, that was the only one available for the week we were going, but it was stunning. The bedroom was in an all-wood interior turret, with stained glass windows. We had a sitting room, a private balcony, and private bathroom. The other rooms are the Peacock Room, The Asian Room, and the Rose Room. I didn't get to see the Rose or the Asian room, but the couple staying in the Peacock room were really nice, and let us see their room while we were there. It's called the Peacock room because it has a beautiful stained glass window with a peacock. Their room was larger than ours, but our room was very comfortable and spacious too. The innkeepers told us our room was the only one that a fireplace, so if you're planning to go when it's a little chilly at night, it's a really romantic room to get. I don't know what their booking is like- when we went, we called the month before, and had no trouble making reservations.
There is so much stuff to do there; it was honestly like a resort of it's own. There's a gym, a gameroom, a pub, a parlor room, a library, and a ballroom/disco (it was not used while we were there though). They also have a beautiful English garden, and a Pool with a spa. The pool is AWESOME- crystal clear, blue water, with several little waterfalls. They had yoga in the morning, if you wanted, and the spa does massages, manicures, pedicures, etc. all poolside, if you want.
There is a HUGE kitchen, which is decorated like a real farmhouse kitchen. We had gourmet breakfasts (included with your stay), and you can go back in anytime you wanted for coffee, etc. they also had home baked cookies every night, which I thought was really sweet.
They are very lose to downtown San Diego, so if you want to do sightseeing or whatnot, there's plenty of things, but honestly, we hardly left the bed and breakfast. It's on 6 acres, all enclosed, so the privacy is amazing, and we had so much privacy, it was like having an entire resort to ourselves. The inn keepers were really wonderful, and took care of us the whole week- anytime we needed something, they got it to us immediately, and they just made us feel like they really wanted us to enjoy our trip.
If you do get bored, there is horseback riding and golf nearby, which the innkeepers will help get you set up with; plus you're right by the movie theaters & casinos.
I could go on for another hour about it, so I'll stop that here- but Iâll put their website in here, and if you have any other questions, you can email me & I'll try to answer them :) It was such a special place, and I really want to go back again someday. I imagine it would be amazing for a honeymoon.
Hope this helped :) And congrats! Wherever you decide to stay, I'm sure it will be perfect.
Since you only mentioned hotels, I'm assuming you already have a venue for the actual wedding & reception/after party, and are just looking for something for you & your (soon to be) husband?
Sand Diego has a ton of places, but most of them are more resort/party related. For a honeymoon, I would think you guys would want something that was more catered to just the two of you, at least as a hotel, so you guys can spend time together. If it was me, I would try for a bed and breakfast over a hotel- they're smaller, quieter, and usually have better amenities for couples.
It wasn't for a honeymoon (Iâm not married yet), but a few years ago my boyfriend and I stayed at a bed and breakfast called Jamul Haven. It was originally built as farmhouse in the Victorian era (Victorian era=beautiful architecture, and super romantic, décor wise) by the owner of an Olive Farm. There is a ton of history to it, but I won't bore you with the details of that here- it's since been revamped as a exclusive bed and breakfast (there are only 4 rooms altogether).
The location is gorgeous- it's built on the foothills of the Laguna mountains, and we spent every night watching the sunset there. The whole sky was lit up with colors I swear I've never seen in our home state (Ohio).
Each of the rooms has a theme- we stayed in the Celtic room; when we booked our stay, that was the only one available for the week we were going, but it was stunning. The bedroom was in an all-wood interior turret, with stained glass windows. We had a sitting room, a private balcony, and private bathroom. The other rooms are the Peacock Room, The Asian Room, and the Rose Room. I didn't get to see the Rose or the Asian room, but the couple staying in the Peacock room were really nice, and let us see their room while we were there. It's called the Peacock room because it has a beautiful stained glass window with a peacock. Their room was larger than ours, but our room was very comfortable and spacious too. The innkeepers told us our room was the only one that a fireplace, so if you're planning to go when it's a little chilly at night, it's a really romantic room to get. I don't know what their booking is like- when we went, we called the month before, and had no trouble making reservations.
There is so much stuff to do there; it was honestly like a resort of it's own. There's a gym, a gameroom, a pub, a parlor room, a library, and a ballroom/disco (it was not used while we were there though). They also have a beautiful English garden, and a Pool with a spa. The pool is AWESOME- crystal clear, blue water, with several little waterfalls. They had yoga in the morning, if you wanted, and the spa does massages, manicures, pedicures, etc. all poolside, if you want.
There is a HUGE kitchen, which is decorated like a real farmhouse kitchen. We had gourmet breakfasts (included with your stay), and you can go back in anytime you wanted for coffee, etc. they also had home baked cookies every night, which I thought was really sweet.
They are very lose to downtown San Diego, so if you want to do sightseeing or whatnot, there's plenty of things, but honestly, we hardly left the bed and breakfast. It's on 6 acres, all enclosed, so the privacy is amazing, and we had so much privacy, it was like having an entire resort to ourselves. The inn keepers were really wonderful, and took care of us the whole week- anytime we needed something, they got it to us immediately, and they just made us feel like they really wanted us to enjoy our trip.
If you do get bored, there is horseback riding and golf nearby, which the innkeepers will help get you set up with; plus you're right by the movie theaters & casinos.
I could go on for another hour about it, so I'll stop that here- but Iâll put their website in here, and if you have any other questions, you can email me & I'll try to answer them :) It was such a special place, and I really want to go back again someday. I imagine it would be amazing for a honeymoon.
Hope this helped :) And congrats! Wherever you decide to stay, I'm sure it will be perfect.
Why Dont Women Do Romantic Stuff For Their Men?
Jay
Im a very romantic man. I like to do romantic stuff for my partners. I have been with several women but none of them ever did the same romantic things I occasionally did for them.
It is my dream for example to one night come home from work to find everywhere is pitch dark except the table where a tasty candlelight dinner and a beautiful girlfriend are waiting for me.
Or I come home and find candles on the floor leading to the bedroom where there are more nice scented candles and romantic song played plus my girlfriend waiting in sexy outfit ready to make passionate love.
Stuff like this make me feel appreciated and contrary to popular belief some if not many men too actually like to be appreciated in similar way as women do. Its just that we dont like to reveal it because we dont wanna be looked down upon.
So why dont women do romantic stuff back for their men? Or they actually do and I just havent had the luck to meet any of them who do?
Answer
The problem is most men are not like this!! So most woman dont think that men need this kind of romantic stuff. I for one am guilty. I was married several years to a man that only needed sex and dinner. He would do the romantic things for me so that he knew he would get sex. If I would have planned a romantic picnic for us to go on he would of ate the food and been ready to go. It would have meant nothing to him. I would be better off giving him sex. well needless to say we got divorced and I met this amazing man that needs love attention cuddling and all that romantic stuff. I sometimes forgt that he needs it too. Its weird and I joke with him all the time about him being "such a girl". The thing is i would have never known if he didnt tell me. So if your with someone and they are not doing these things the first thing you can do is tell her. Tell her that it would mean the world to you if she surprised you with romantic guestures. She may have no clue that you would even appreciate these kind of things. If you have told her...remind her. When she does it show her that you appreciate it. tell her thank you right when it happens. Make sure you look like you appreciate it too. Give her a big long hug. She will be givig you what you need and in return getting the appreciation that she needs.
Every woman that is in love wants to make their man happy but sometimes we are clueless as to what really makes them happy. And sometimes we think we know when really we have no idea. So if you point it out to her and show her you appreciate when she does it she will probably do it more.
The problem is most men are not like this!! So most woman dont think that men need this kind of romantic stuff. I for one am guilty. I was married several years to a man that only needed sex and dinner. He would do the romantic things for me so that he knew he would get sex. If I would have planned a romantic picnic for us to go on he would of ate the food and been ready to go. It would have meant nothing to him. I would be better off giving him sex. well needless to say we got divorced and I met this amazing man that needs love attention cuddling and all that romantic stuff. I sometimes forgt that he needs it too. Its weird and I joke with him all the time about him being "such a girl". The thing is i would have never known if he didnt tell me. So if your with someone and they are not doing these things the first thing you can do is tell her. Tell her that it would mean the world to you if she surprised you with romantic guestures. She may have no clue that you would even appreciate these kind of things. If you have told her...remind her. When she does it show her that you appreciate it. tell her thank you right when it happens. Make sure you look like you appreciate it too. Give her a big long hug. She will be givig you what you need and in return getting the appreciation that she needs.
Every woman that is in love wants to make their man happy but sometimes we are clueless as to what really makes them happy. And sometimes we think we know when really we have no idea. So if you point it out to her and show her you appreciate when she does it she will probably do it more.
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