girl0501
i have 3 beautiful little girls living in a cage, within the course of 2 weeks of having them are all sick clearly with very early, very treatable stages of mycoplasma. in an attempt to take them to the vet, the one who started this bit me pretty badly and after talking to two vets who specialize in rats, they are both useless giving me repetitive answers of "i don't know." fine whatever, i'm using the carefresh bedding right now and notice it contains quite a bit of dust which obviously isn't helping them...does anyone use a bedding that hasn't caused them a great amount of dust problems?
would pine be better than the carefresh bedding?
please help, they may be rats to most people but they are beloved pets to me and this has completely ruined my day.
3 story ferret cage, it's all barred and open and we put them in a spacious area so they aren't locked in anywhere. i just cleaned out the cage for the first time and lifted the bedding to find a shit ton of dust underneath..
i switched to eco bedding and had to switch it out while they were in the cage since they won't come to me. it was amazing how i heard a lot less sneezes and one of the rats seems to be better. i think...i'm posting another question later.
anyways, the original sick dumbo is still very pissed and she's also showing signs of being the alpha rat of the cage. at least they're taking food from me and drinking water.
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Carefresh Ultra and regular has tons of dust in it. My females cant tolerate it without sneezing non stop. I would suggest either Eco Bedding, which is recycled cardboard, or Yesterdays News, which is pellets of compressed recycled paper. Eco Bedding is cheaper and stretches farther for me. I also have a 3 story ferret cage for my female rats (Marshall Ferret Mansion), so Im assuming its about the same specs.
Carefresh Ultra and regular has tons of dust in it. My females cant tolerate it without sneezing non stop. I would suggest either Eco Bedding, which is recycled cardboard, or Yesterdays News, which is pellets of compressed recycled paper. Eco Bedding is cheaper and stretches farther for me. I also have a 3 story ferret cage for my female rats (Marshall Ferret Mansion), so Im assuming its about the same specs.
what stuff should we do in bed other than intercourse?
Q. i just want to be good and fun in bed. please give me ideas of what i should do in bed with my man other the sexual intercourse..please no silly answers
thank you
thank you
Answer
Being good in bed is NOT about listing off physical activities. It's not an exercise schedule.
Being good in bed is about attitude. I was a swinger for years and I was amazed at how little people grasp this concept. I had beautiful women who were terrible in bed and unattractive women who were amazing. It was the attitude they brought to sex. Consider the act of a BJ. If you give a bj like a slow bike ride in the park VS. a hungry dog who just found a steak, you will NOT be good in bed. Be the starving dog. NEED sex vs. allow sex. Beg for sex rather than wait to be asked. These are the things that make a woman fantastic in bed.
Now that you have the general attitude, focus on what works for men. Romance, tenderness, emotion... while all good, do nothing for men in bed. Men are action creatures. We bond over fishing and never say a word. The ACT of sex bonds men to their wives, not emotion or sensuality during sex. The more you introduce sensuality, the more likely he is to fantasize about better sex during sex.
What works for men? Visuals and audibles. Men primarily want to see sex or more importantly, sexuality. Sexuality is the body language of looking sexual or horny. Start out by making sure he SEES sexuality in you. Subtle glimpses of body parts like if you weren't wearing a bra and you bent over near him and he caught a glimpse of your breasts. Or wear a long t-shirt with nothing underneath but make sure you sit with your knees up so he can SEE. The gateway to a man's sex is his eyes. Many men like their women to talk about sex too. Do it like a conversation, not like a porn start trying to act sultry. Say things like, 'I love it when you lick here or when you...' (fill in the blank with something true). But talk like this when you are driving to the store or on a date. Slip comments like this in all the time. Talk about how you were thinking of him earlier in the day and you had to stop and masturbate. This will drive him nuts to know you are a sexual person. Most women guard their sexuality so closely that they teach their man that sex is never on their mind or so rarely it's not worth wanting.
during sex, make sure you aren't mute. Make sex noises but don't over do it. Talk dirty(ish). Don't say things like 'Wanna do it?' - instead say things like, 'I want to f*** so bad I can't wait any more'. Just reframing the question into a need is a huge improvement, but adding specific language rather than pet talk, works wonders as well. It's says you are sexual and not all caught up in 'acting' like a good girl too much.
Once you are having sex, try to find positions where your man can see sex. The more visual you make it, the better(based on the average man, of course). Most men like to see sex, so the more visuals you provide the higher his sexual arousal. Standing squat is great, reverse cowgirl, doggy style... all provide a view.
Being the girl who will vs. being the girl who says no is a huge factor as well. Many men cheat with uglier women who will do anything. Anal, swallow, etc. I am not a fan of anal, but I think that swallowing is across the board desired by men. It demonstrates a complete acceptance of sex and all that it entails. For me and most of the guys I know, we don't really care 'specifically' if you swallow, but when we are with women who CRAVE the taste and to swallow, it does triple the experience because any woman THAT sexual is just plain HOT. My wife never swallowed until we met a couple that we swapped with that drank pineapple juice the day of sex. They tasted like candy. My wife couldn't get enough of his cum, which was out of her character. From then on, if we know we are going to romp, we drink pineapple juice and avoid coffee or smoking(for those who smoke) so that it does not make it bitter.
Finally, good sex is not a one time thing. It's about maintaining a good sex life. Men, especailly, need sex every day but that isn't always practical. Every other day is optimal. If you go beyond that, your man is actually losing desire for you. Have consistent gaps in sex of 2 or more days and he is permanently losing desire for you. The problem is, that is sex drive is increasing but not for you. Which is why men cheat... lack of sex. Have enough sex and he will worship you. Lack of sex will make him distant, bitter and eventually fall out of love.
To sum up. Remember V3F.
In all things keep sex VISUAL.
Then add Fire, Freak & Frequency.
Fire - How bad you NEED sex.
Freak - Be wild and kinky.
Frequent - No matter how well you do the others, if it's not often enough, you will lose him.
Being good in bed is NOT about listing off physical activities. It's not an exercise schedule.
Being good in bed is about attitude. I was a swinger for years and I was amazed at how little people grasp this concept. I had beautiful women who were terrible in bed and unattractive women who were amazing. It was the attitude they brought to sex. Consider the act of a BJ. If you give a bj like a slow bike ride in the park VS. a hungry dog who just found a steak, you will NOT be good in bed. Be the starving dog. NEED sex vs. allow sex. Beg for sex rather than wait to be asked. These are the things that make a woman fantastic in bed.
Now that you have the general attitude, focus on what works for men. Romance, tenderness, emotion... while all good, do nothing for men in bed. Men are action creatures. We bond over fishing and never say a word. The ACT of sex bonds men to their wives, not emotion or sensuality during sex. The more you introduce sensuality, the more likely he is to fantasize about better sex during sex.
What works for men? Visuals and audibles. Men primarily want to see sex or more importantly, sexuality. Sexuality is the body language of looking sexual or horny. Start out by making sure he SEES sexuality in you. Subtle glimpses of body parts like if you weren't wearing a bra and you bent over near him and he caught a glimpse of your breasts. Or wear a long t-shirt with nothing underneath but make sure you sit with your knees up so he can SEE. The gateway to a man's sex is his eyes. Many men like their women to talk about sex too. Do it like a conversation, not like a porn start trying to act sultry. Say things like, 'I love it when you lick here or when you...' (fill in the blank with something true). But talk like this when you are driving to the store or on a date. Slip comments like this in all the time. Talk about how you were thinking of him earlier in the day and you had to stop and masturbate. This will drive him nuts to know you are a sexual person. Most women guard their sexuality so closely that they teach their man that sex is never on their mind or so rarely it's not worth wanting.
during sex, make sure you aren't mute. Make sex noises but don't over do it. Talk dirty(ish). Don't say things like 'Wanna do it?' - instead say things like, 'I want to f*** so bad I can't wait any more'. Just reframing the question into a need is a huge improvement, but adding specific language rather than pet talk, works wonders as well. It's says you are sexual and not all caught up in 'acting' like a good girl too much.
Once you are having sex, try to find positions where your man can see sex. The more visual you make it, the better(based on the average man, of course). Most men like to see sex, so the more visuals you provide the higher his sexual arousal. Standing squat is great, reverse cowgirl, doggy style... all provide a view.
Being the girl who will vs. being the girl who says no is a huge factor as well. Many men cheat with uglier women who will do anything. Anal, swallow, etc. I am not a fan of anal, but I think that swallowing is across the board desired by men. It demonstrates a complete acceptance of sex and all that it entails. For me and most of the guys I know, we don't really care 'specifically' if you swallow, but when we are with women who CRAVE the taste and to swallow, it does triple the experience because any woman THAT sexual is just plain HOT. My wife never swallowed until we met a couple that we swapped with that drank pineapple juice the day of sex. They tasted like candy. My wife couldn't get enough of his cum, which was out of her character. From then on, if we know we are going to romp, we drink pineapple juice and avoid coffee or smoking(for those who smoke) so that it does not make it bitter.
Finally, good sex is not a one time thing. It's about maintaining a good sex life. Men, especailly, need sex every day but that isn't always practical. Every other day is optimal. If you go beyond that, your man is actually losing desire for you. Have consistent gaps in sex of 2 or more days and he is permanently losing desire for you. The problem is, that is sex drive is increasing but not for you. Which is why men cheat... lack of sex. Have enough sex and he will worship you. Lack of sex will make him distant, bitter and eventually fall out of love.
To sum up. Remember V3F.
In all things keep sex VISUAL.
Then add Fire, Freak & Frequency.
Fire - How bad you NEED sex.
Freak - Be wild and kinky.
Frequent - No matter how well you do the others, if it's not often enough, you will lose him.
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